My thing is, have sex whenever you decide to want to have sex. You want to have sex on the first night, go ahead. You want to have sex after 20 dates, go ahead. You want to never have sex, go ahead. People think that someone’s sexual choices actually coincide with their personality. If all you can think of someone’s worth is whether they want to have sex or not, then the problem is probably you.
I am not small, tiny or little. I am not skinny, petite or light. I am not cute, thin and slender. I am not pretty, beautiful or gorgeous. I am not attractive, hot or sexy. I am not kind, I am not a good person. I am not a good friend, a good daughter, a good sister, a good student or a good girlfriend. If I can’t be these things, what can I be?